A vibrator is a sex toy that you can use during sex to get even more pleasure. You can use it on your own, or with a partner.
The key to having rough sex with a vibrator is understanding your body. You'll want to know exactly where your clit is, what feels good and what doesn't, and how much pressure you like when you're having sex.
If you have a partner helping you out, they should be paying attention to what's going on down there—they should watch for signs of discomfort and stop if anything hurts or gets uncomfortable for you. They should also ask questions about what feels good so they can keep doing those things!
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