I thought my marriage was beyond help when counseling failed us. If an expert couldn't save our marriage, then who could? It wasn't until I learned an incredible secret about marriage that I realized that perhaps traditional marriage counseling had done more harm than good and that there was a much more effective solution. I'd like to share with you what I learned and how you can save your marriage without counseling.
My wife and I fought all the time. For years we ignored the warning signs but finally it got serious enough that we started attending marriage counseling sessions in an attempt to save our marriage. Our marriage counselor worked very hard with us to teach us better communication skills. Unfortunately, although we were communicating better, the fights didn't stop. Really all we did with our newly acquired communication skills was fight better! It all came to a head one day, when my wife told me that our marriage was over. She'd had enough and wanted a divorce!
What had happened to our marriage? If a marriage counselor couldn't save us, then maybe our His Secret Obsession Reviews marriage really was over. I still loved my wife very much though, and I just was not ready to throw in the towel. I believed that our marriage was worth saving and so I began to search for a solution.
I stumbled nearly by accident on an incredible secret. I learned that traditional marriage counseling has an 80% failure rate! Now I felt like maybe there was some hope for our marriage after all! This is because the education that the vast majority of counselors receive focuses on the life satisfaction and happiness of the individual. This education and training has no bearing or focus on marriage, which obviously involves two people. Since these experts use an individual model of therapy, they try to apply the same model to a couple and it doesn't work. That is why the focus is nearly ALWAYS on communication as the solution! Communication is rarely the problem!
The secret is to focus entirely on the marriage, almost as a third person. The marriage is the client rather than the individuals in the marriage. There are specific things that you can say and do around your spouse that will begin to change the dynamics of the marriage almost immediately. This works even if they don't know you are doing it and are doing nothing themselves! There is a step-by-step proven plan that has been far superior to traditional counseling. Much of it seems like the complete opposite of what you should be doing but it really works!
It's all up to you! If you don't take this action to save your marriage, then who will?
The solution I discovered has been so successful that it was featured on Dateline NBC and has nearly a 90% success rate! It works even when only one partner wants to save the marriage! And you can do it at home without spending tons of money on counseling that doesn't work!
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